On March 21st, I went for my first ever networking event – Liberal Arts Alumni Networking. Networking is a word that almost everyone has either heard or used. It is thrown around casually but no one actually realizes just how important it can be or even how scary.
The idea itself sounds simple; meet people, talk to them, ask them questions. While this is the basic idea of networking, there is a certain etiquette that needs to be maintained, and for those who don’t already know how to behave professionally yet casually at the same time, this can be extremely intimidating.
Luckily we had Randolph Houston, current President of the Liberal Arts Alumni Society Board, talk to us briefly before the event began. He gave us some very helpful tips and explained how we should talk and how we could make an impact on someone and get them to remember us. It was very insightful and reassuring and definitely calmed my nerves. If you missed this event but are looking for networking tips, check out this video interview with Randy, where he shares lots of useful advice about how to network.
Some of the important tips he shared with us were:
- Always maintain eye contact when talking to someone.
- Even though you are trying to get people to remember you, it is important not to make yourself the center of the conversation.
- If you do not remember someone’s name, do not panic. That is what the nametags are provided for.
- Have a firm hand shake.
- If you have any unique talents or interests, you should try to mention this because it helps people to remember and identify you.
- Most importantly, establish common ground and build the conversation from there.
After Mr. Houston gave his speech, we dispersed into small groups and began to speak to other alumni who were present there that day. Being a psychology major, I bee–lined to the little table that had a sign reading “Psychology.” Once there, I had the wonderful opportunity to speak to John Erikson and Susan Lutz. They both are practicing psychologists and had a lot of wonderful advice and information to offer. The most important thing I realized after talking to them is that you don’t need to have only one job once you start working. Mr. Erikson has his own private practice but he also works at The Meadows, a psychiatric center, as a counseling psychologist. So if you have two dream jobs, it is possible that you will find a way to do both.
Overall, the networking event was a great learning experience. Even though initially I was apprehensive, nervous and not at all dressed for the event, I came away happy, confident and a lot more knowledgeable. I now know how to present myself at such events and how to keep conversation flowing. I also gained a lot of interesting insight into the world of a practicing psychologist and know a little more about what to expect once I start working.
I hope to see more of these events in the future and hope to see more liberal arts students attending them!